HTHGS: Shaving your kitty (written by Alex Robboy, LSW)

Most people are 'turned on' when their partner 'shaves their kitty'. However, the precise answer is Yes & No. Shaving your vulva will turn some people on and some people off. In your situation, the exact answer will depend upon your partner. One way to find out definitively is to a) Ask and b) Just do it.

If you really want to excite your partner try . . .

· One evening while out with your partner at a formal gathering (i.e. a work party, memorial day, group movie night or even a family barbecue, etc.) wear your partner's favorite skirt. Note, on this night, unlike any other night, you will be wearing nothing underneath the skirt. In addition that morning, you will have shaven off all of your vulva hair. Then, while the two of you are out, whisper in his ear that you have nothing on underneath.

· One evening, when you normally would put on a sexy piece of sexy lingerie, wear a body suit instead. Again, that evening before putting on the body suit, shave.

· One day, pretend that you have been 'lounging' around the house. Make sure you are wearing some beat up sweatpants and that your hair is a mess. However, unbeknownst to your partner, that morning after a long shower, you shaved your vulva hair. Thus, while in your 'grubby' clothes, entice into becoming sexual with you, and watch his surprise as he realizes that you had this all planned out.

· The next time the two of you are showering together, ask your partner to shave you. Tell your partner that this would turn you on.

(Note, if you a man, you can shave the hair around your penis. Many women, like men, prefer engaging in oral sex, without the risk of having pubic hair getting caught between their teeth.)

Tips written by Alex Robboy, LSW

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HTHGS: Shaving your balls (written by a susbscriber)

First of all, thanks for your newsletter, as I enjoy it very much.

 With all the talk of women shaving their mounds and labia, I have to interject something for the men.  I've discovered, many years ago, that shaving your balls is [1] a way to feel much cleaner and less odorous, and [2] a way to drive most women pretty darned wild.  Women find that gonads, freshly shaven that are softer than a babies butt, are much more fun to play with and lick.....OMG, how I love that!  Besides the fact of the hygiene, the erotic feel of having hairless balls is exciting, all on it's own.  I keep some hair, above them and my cock, so I don't look like a chihauja [spelling?]!!!  I recommend that men try it.  It's easier to do if you use hair conditioner rather than shave cream.....even easier [and awfully exciting] if your lady would like to do it for you!! Have fun, Jim