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Making the woman feel good (Written by Erika Pluhar)
Ask Erika,
I Just have some questions about sex, This is the
first time I have ever like wrote an e-mail to someone asking for advice so
please bare with me. Last night my
girlfriend told me that intercourse doesn't really do anything for her.
I mean she says that it feels good but I get more pleasure from it then
she does! She also said that the
only time she has an orgasm is when I'm fingering her or when she's grinding on
me! My question is this, is there
any way to give her an orgasm through intercourse?
I mean I would like to think that I could use my "Tool" (penis)
To give her pleasure! And another thing what is the G-spot and how can I
stimulate it? And If I do will it feel good to her? And can I stimulate her
g-spot with my "Tool"!! (Penis) Thanks I hope you understood
every thing I ask! I'm sorry if I sound dumb or anything! Please write back! Sincerely BJ ; - )
Dear
Jerry,
Thank
you for writing to howtohavegoodsex.com. No sex questions are ever dumb!
As I've said before to others, we live in a culture where there isn't much open
conversation or education about sexuality, so many people have questions and
need information.
That said, most
women don't orgasm from the penile thrusting ALONE during intercourse. So,
you're not doing anything wrong. Since your girlfriend orgasms from you
fingering her (I assume that means rubbing her clitoris) and from her grinding
on you (which also involves stimulating her clitoris), she is probably like most
women and needs clitoral stimulation in order to climax. This is normal.
There are some women who can orgasm just through vaginal penetration and
thrusting. But even for the majority of women who climax during
intercourse, the clitoris is often involved through contact with the other
person's body, self-stimulation in conjunction with intercourse, or the use of a
vibrator. There are some positions you and your girlfriend can try that
might involve her clitoris more during intercourse. The woman-on-top
position (probably the one you two use when she's grinding on you) might help.
Also, you lying on your back and she on hers (so that her clitoris can be
stimulated by her, you, or with a vibrator) may also help. Make sure to
talk to each other openly about what feels good so you can know if you're on the
right track rather than guessing.
