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Ask Yvonne, 
Basically I have one question, why doesn't my girlfriend cum during sex 

every-time?

Dear One Question,
There are a number of reasons why your girlfriend may not cum every time… 

1.      She may be under a lot of stress and preoccupied with worry

2.      She may not really be in the mood, but is having sex to please you

3.      She may need more direct stimulation on her clitoris or on her G-spot

4.      There’s too much of a focus placed on her, or both of you, “achieving” orgasm

5.      She’s thinking too much instead of enjoying the moment

6.      The two of you rush into sex, without getting fully aroused

7.      She’s tired

8.      She’s afraid she won’t orgasm and actually ends up suppressing her sexual response

9.      She’s too worried about pleasing you

10.  If the two of you just had a conflict, or have relationship problems, she may not be able to cum

 It is very rare that anybody (men included) orgasm every time they have sex.  There are just too many relationship and life events that impact our mood.  So don’t put that pressure on her, or yourself, for her to orgasm every time you have sex.  Likewise, if you think that any of the reasons listed above are impacting your sex life, help her out and see what you can do to enable her to come at least most of the time! Yvonne K. Fulbright, MS.Ed.

 

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