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 Cybersex

For better or  for worse, many people dabble with cybersex. In the world of cybersex, you can be anyone you want.  In the world of cyberspace it is just as easy to be a dashing 27 year old corporate lawyer who has a knock out body, a 72 year old man in a wheel chair, as it is to become a green monster.  The only limitation you face is your imagination and your writing ability. Within this context, some people claim cybersex is not real sex and is thus, a “safe” form of playing, while others consider this a form of cheating, a breach of the marital contract.  Before engaging in cybersex, I suggest having a conversation with your partner and exploring his or her boundaries on this subject.  You might just learn something.

 

Cybersex for the creative couple

Cybersex is something that does not have to be limited to you and a random strange person, cybersex is something that you and your partner can engage in. Having good cybersex with your partner requires that you

·         Suspend all disbelief – similar to the way you suspend all disbelief when watching a movie

·         Allow yourself to enter a world fantasy – similar to what you did in childhood when you played cops and robbers or even house

·         Write your sexual thoughts

Try experimenting with your partner in a MUD room, chat room and even through regular e-mail. Who knows, the two of you might be able to engage with one another in an entirely new and different way.

 

This tip was originally written by Alex Robboy, LSW

 

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  Our Philosophy sex is like dancing, it changes every time. It depends on culture, atmosphere and mood. Sometimes it is done alone, with a partner or in a group. It can be fast and hard or slow and soft. Sex is a combination of non-verbal negotiation and verbal cues: a scream, a twitch of the toes, or a flush of the face. There is no one 'right' way to move, only what feels good to all those involved. 
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